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Not Just For Girls. Boys Can’t Dance.


In the times where people are fighting for gender equality – equal rights as adults to allow women and girls the same rights as men, in the work place and how we dress. It is a slow movement, but the little things like, equal choice of clothing for little girls are beginning to change. 13 years ago I wouldn’t have dreamt buying a cardigan with cars on – aimed at little girls, yet there is one currently hung in the wardrobe, or dinosaur clothes designed for girls. It is brilliant.

While we’re looking deeply into what clothing line these big companies have, making a stand, there is another little corner that seems society turns a blind eye to; that gender stereotypical jobs and hobbies are still very much obvious.

Football for boys, ballet for girls; this has stuck; and is something that is currently on my mind. Let me tell you…


In 2012 my eldest daughter took the steps to join a local majorette troupe; she didn’t enjoy gymnastics or country dancing, so I wasn’t sure if she would even enjoy this activity either. But she did and this year we’re nearing her 6th year and still loves every part of it. She also occasionally participates in football and hockey with her school; all activities very much supported. As long as she is enjoying it, nobody seems to bat an eyelid at her activities – quite right too.


Not Just For Girls

My son, he’s an absolute Gentleman, he’s very kind and is thoughtful towards others. He is also a majorette. One very hot summer’s day in 2013 whilst watching his older sister display, he asked if he was able to join in; I enquired and he was welcomed with open arms. I genuinely believed he wouldn’t stay for long I, myself assumed he would stop when he realised (at the time), there were no other boys, and just how much hard work goes into training. He surprised us all; he is now currently going into his 5th year.


The kicker – The Not-So Gender Equality

I have been questioned many times over the past five years from different people about my son doing majorettes. That is deemed too girly for him.

Where I have never been questioned about my daughter doing it, or that she also plays football (and is a fan of football too, might I add – both my son AND my husband aren’t bothered by football!!).

I am not really sure why people, in today’s society – where people are fighting (and rightly so) over women’s rights, that this hobby is deemed “too girly.” Yes it obviously is predominantly a female activity, but that shouldn’t stop any person male or female having a go. The stereotypes are still there, and are a long way behind what it should be. As I said nobody seems to be bothered by my daughter playing and liking football, yet it is EVERYBODY’S business whether my son twirls a baton.


Fighting the Corner

Where is the fight for the boys who want to dance? We’re still no closer to having the freedom for more Billy Elliotts.

The fight for those boys who do want to put on ballet pumps and pirouette.

For the boys, like my son as well as many other sons, who want to pick up a baton and NOT want to injure someone but to show off a skill, or a set of poms to show off his team building skills?

These boys need this corner too. There have been times where my son has been alienated by friends and classmates because of his hobby. It’s unfair.

To me, it is the adults – the parents who need to help change this stigma where boys can’t comfortably enjoy something that is not the usual football or scouts.

Sadly I have seen it with my own eyes where people point at the boys at carnivals and displays (although in my son’s case it is friends who point more…), at the end of the day they are children; children who are out to entertain doing the thing that they love, the boys should never feel like they’re inadequate. There are some amazing male twirlers in the world – you’ve just got to open your eyes and see the amazing things these guys do, ignoring the rudeness.

I would rather my son pick up a baton and twirl or a set of poms and rock out to Bon Jovi; than be the mean judgemental humans out there, who think it is acceptable to ridicule someone because of their gender.

It is time to stop.

So, unless your hobby is porn or of a sexual nature, then gender should NOT have an effect on a person’s hobbies, jobs or activities.

Leave our boy twirlers, boy dancers alone.



I am incredibly proud of my son, of all my children. We never push them to do their hobbies, in fact sometimes it would be nice to have a Friday off (joke 😉 ), we weren’t expecting him to enjoy it so much, to still be doing it nearly 5 years on. I do ask him every now and again if he still wants to continue, and every time his answer is yes. I would never force him or any of them (I have three twirlers) to continue if they didn’t want to.

It really is a great activity, something different. He gets on with every single person on his team.

(Check out the behind the scenes post coming soon).


Merriott Majorettes Charity Fundraiser

A majorette troupe from Merriott will be holding a Majorette Competition with a Fun Day; Sunday 13th August (This coming Sunday)!

The day will give the opportunity to see some award winning Majorette Troupes compete against each other, in aid of two fantastic Somerset Charities; St Margaret’s Hospice and Towards Tomorrow Together, both close to Merriott Majorettes’ hearts.

St Margaret’s Hospice provides palliative care to patients with life limiting conditions, supporting their families through difficult times ahead.download

Towards Tomorrow Together provides families with support through the loss of a baby or child, as well as memory boxes before families leave the hospital, to assist with making memories.

The day will include displays from Devon Dynamite Majorettes, Cullumpton Ace, Port Bredy Allstars, Chard Evolution and Castle Cary Cygnets; with duets, parent fun and lunch time activities which are majorette themed.

As well as this competition there is a Fun Day, to add to the already special event. Stalls with various activities, and things to buy.

Disney’s Anna and Elsa have agreed to come along, will be there from 11am.

Not forgetting our raffle, with a chance to win some wonderful days out from Yeovil Football Club to Haynes, with a selection of hampers, there are a lovely range of prizes.

These are just a few we have to offer

(There is still time to donate if you wish to).

The day will begin with the first section which will be Military displays from 9.30am, with presentation of trophies at around 5pm.

There will be a BBQ, cake and tuck shop stalls too.

This will be the second year running Merriott Majorettes have given up their limited time to make a day for Charity. They’re a fantastic team.

Huge thank you to everyone involved, who will be making the day possible, particularly the troupes traveling from across the South West to join in with the special event.

If you’re at a loose end, pop over and support these two great causes.

Any more information please head over to Merriott’s Facebook Group, keep up to date with their latest news and events.19554166_479215845757550_5865501824754751598_n

Well done to everyone.

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